Relationships and Ego

The ego uses numerous words and ideas in order to disguise outwardly, what is internally a self- centered activity and objective. Ideas such as “persuading or encouraging” people to see your point of view, or the idea of educating people so they can make an informed decision, are thoughts and actions designed to make this subtle manipulation of your will upon another, more palatable, and more socially acceptable.

The Pocket Guide To Relationships: Blain Tomlinson
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